Wedding Anniversary
Cheryl and I are celebrating 44 years of being married today. Her parents celebrated their 66th wedding anniversary this year. We are blessed to have all three of our girls married to loving, Christian men, partners with whom they can share their lives. I’ve been thinking about marriage these days.
As I reflect on the one flesh union that Cheryl and I have had under God’s blessing, there have been many more good times than bad. It is not as simple as falling in love and living happily ever after. Making a marriage work means working at your marriage. In our case, this marriage works because we have a mutual commitment not just to each other, but to Jesus Christ.
Some might think, “Well, of course a preacher would say that.” But this is not just some pious platitude. This is a reality. Jesus has always been at the center of our relationship. It is what keeps us grounded. His presence convicts us when we do wrong. We love each other (which means actions and not just a feeling or emotion – 1 John 3:18) because we have experienced His love in our lives. We forgive each other as we have been forgiven by God. Knowing that Jesus has paid for our sins with His death makes all the difference in our life in this one flesh union.
We don’t take the credit for having a solid marriage. We see it as a blessing from God. It is just one more evidence to us of His goodness and that things really do go better in your life if you live according to His plan.
Cheryl and I don’t get to be together today because she is off working for Jesus while I am at home. There were times when the situation was reversed. While we would like to be with each other today, it is not that big of a deal. We are grateful that God led us to each other and that we get to spend our lives here on earth as wife and husband.
Happy Anniversary, Cheryl. See you soon.

