1 John 3:1-2 1 How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him. 2 Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known. But we know that when he appears, we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is. (NIV)
You and I are the children of God. Not by natural birth, though. By nature, we are children of wrath, descendants of Adam, enemies of God, orphaned and estranged from Him. We show this by the behavior that we so often lapse into.
Have you noticed that no one wants to be held accountable for his or her actions? So many have the attitude, “Yes, I did it, but it is not my fault.” That excuse just doesn’t wash. Before God, you are accountable for all you have done and what you have not done. But you and I have something that will wash. We admit our sins, without making excuses for them, because we remember that we became God’s children through a washing that He provides. We have received the washing we need in the rebirth that comes through water and the Word, the rebirth of Baptism. Jesus stepped in, took our place, and paid the price for our sins. He did that through a perfect life, a cross, and a resurrection. He offers the benefit of all He did, forgiveness, life and salvation, in Baptism, which makes you clean in His sight and marks you as His children. By His grace, you and I have become His children through this REBIRTH, a spiritual adoption as it were, which God initiated and completed. We are His children!
Why would God choose people like you and me for His kids? Did He look into the future and see that we would be obedient and faithful to Him, making us good candidates to become His children? Was there some kind of cosmic screening process in which God decided that He would save some and not others? No, John tells us the only motive God had was His LAVISH LOVE. It was not even our response to His love that led Him to choose us. It is just Him loving us and choosing us. We have been made His children purely because of His love, which this translation says He “has lavished on us”. The emphasis in this passage is that the love of God is something tremendous, He has an ample supply, and He offers it freely.
Years ago Amy Grant recorded the song “Her Father’s Eyes” in which she prayed that she would look at the world with the eyes of her Father in heaven and that the world around her would notice that she was a child of God. We should all want that kind of resemblance to our Father. One of the amazing things about our God is that He does the work to make us like Himself. He makes us PERFECT. We have no perfection in ourselves, nor can we achieve it through our own efforts. However, His command to “be perfect” was accomplished for us — it comes to us as a gift in Jesus Christ. God has worked it out so that we will stand before Him as perfect on the last day. Perfection in God’s sight is ours because of what Jesus did for us and our faith in Him. That is part of that love He has lavished on us.
The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him. Not recognizing Jesus for who He was and is, the world will not recognize the relationship of perfection we have with Him. Those outside of God’s grace cannot know the change that has taken place in those who have experienced it. You and I need to make it known to them.
